On this Fourth Sunday of Advent we change our focus from John the Baptist to the Blessed Virgin Mary and St. Joseph. Our Discussion Questions will guide your Online Sunday Bible Study sessions with your family, friends and church groups.
Joseph and Christmas
In the drama of the incarnation, Jesus
is, of course, the star. The co-star, though, is definitely mom.
Without her love and labor, the event could not have happened. But there
is a best supporting actor in the drama as well. Joseph was the silent
man of the New Testament. True, Joseph was not the biological
father. He does not speak one word in the scriptures and yet, explains
Dr. Marcellino D'Ambrosio, Joseph had a crucial role in the great mystery of the incarnation.He spares Mary embarrassment, he names the child as his own, and he provides an accepted physical, social, and religious place for the child to be born and raised. Fr. Ron Rolheiser tells us that in essence what Joseph teaches us is how to live in loving fidelity to all that we cling to humanly and religiously - even as we are open to a mystery of God that takes us beyond all the categories of our religious practice and imagination. Isn't that one of the ongoing challenges of Christmas?
Fr. Alex McAllister expands our reflection on Joseph. He says perhaps in today's era of fused families and changing social dynamics, we need to look more at the role of Joseph as foster father and think about those who have accepted parental responsibilities in all kinds of circumstances. Anyone in this role needs support and good role models.
Mary is "ever-virgin"
We also reflect upon Mary in this Sunday's Scriptures. Father Cusick says the deepening of faith in the virginal motherhood led the Church to confess Mary's real and perpetual virginity even in the act of giving birth to the Son of God made man. In fact, Christ's birth 'did not diminish his mother's virginal integrity but sanctified it.' So, yes, we do honor Mary. We do pay particular attention to her. We do make a big deal about her. Fr. Phil Bloom says it's because she was the closest to Jesus - and she suffered greatly with him.
Fear Not All You Josephs
Joseph
was confused, as we often are. He heard an angel say, “Do not be
afraid.” Fr. John Foley, S. J. says the angel's message fit right into
the design of the saintly man's life with God. In this Gospel, we learn
that God takes charge in really critical situations and that we are asked to acquiesce in His assertion of divine control. Joseph trusted God's mysterious ways and found incredible blessing in what he had not planned. And so he followed, explains Fr. Demetrius R. Dumm.College student Jimmy Starke says the message is not only trusting in God’s work at some time in the past or future, but the message is to trust in the work of God in our lives today. Can we love others as they deserve to be loved? Will we be hurt in return? Fr. Joseph Pellegrino says these are the questions that Joseph asked himself as he stirred in his sleep. And Fr. Orlando Sapuay, M.S. asks us the same question of us today. Are we ready to believe in the promises of God, even when faced with perplexing circumstances and what seems like insurmountable problems?
So as we come to the end of Advent, Abbot Philip Lawrence, OSB reminds us that each one of us are challenged to listen to God's Word and to understand how this word works in Scripture and in our personal lives. And know that we cannot respond to this challenge without a daily reading of some small portion of Scripture.
Jesus is the Fulfillment of the Scriptures
Our
Burning Question this week challenges you to review the Chosen
People's most glorious, and notorious, adventures that are experienced
by Jesus, Mary and Joseph in the first two chapters of Matthew. Join
our discussion: How does Matthew let us know that Jesus is "Special?"Fr. Thomas Rosica, CSB actually provides some of the answers to our Burning Question. He points out that Matthew's entire Gospel is about the scriptures being fulfilled in Jesus. In the genealogy (1:1-17), Jesus is the culmination point toward which Israel's long covenant history has been leading. The birth of Christ brings the infinite God within reach of finite man. We must tell others of Jesus. But firstly, Fr. James Gilhooley urges us, allow Him to be born in you. He can't be born again, but we can.
It's the Season of Advent
A
s
we enter the last few days before we rightly give our hearts over to
the joy of Christmas, Archbishop Charles J. Chaput, O.F.M., Cap. of
Denver reminds us that we might take a few minutes in prayer over two
brief passages from the past about the meaning of Advent. He points out
this lesson for Advent: Christ comes so the world may be shaken. From the Vatican, Capuchin Father Raniero Cantalamessa said that a renewed faith in eternal life is one of the keys to the New Evangelization. The preacher of the Pontifical Household offered this suggestion during the second of three Advent sermons that he gav ethree years ago in the presence of the Pope and the Roman Curia.
Christmas is Upon Us
Christmas is in the air. But , do we really need Christmas? The
answer is yes, says Bishop Kevin Farrell of the Diocese of Dallas. We
need Christmas because we can’t see the invisible. Christmas is a sign
of God’s immeasurable love for us. “For God so loved the world that
he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him might not
perish but might have eternal life.” John 3:16And as the secular celebrations heighten, Santa Claus is back in the limelight. The real St. Nicholas was nothing close to the St. Nick (Santa Claus) of the modern age. He was a thin curmudgeonly man with a zeal for the Lord that caused flairs of anger. Compromise was unknown to him. The saint's slow transformation into “Jolly ole’ Saint Nicholas is a remarkable recasting of him centuries in the making.
You also must be receiving cards the abbreviated "Xmas" instead of Christmas. But is this abbreviation really a secular slight of christmas? Msgr. Charles Pope advises us to avoid being too easily offended. In the end, perhaps a middle ground regarding the term “Xmas.” Avoid its use but do not easily take offense regarding it either. There are bigger battles.
And the gifts need to be wrapped. Paul Dion, STL offers thoughts about his Gifting Philisophy. "Shake it, shake it, shake it!," he said, " I have decided to give you my life long thought on gift giving." Question to be resolved: Is it a gift or a donation?
And what about the Christmas cards? It’s a multi-part process: writing the accompanying letter, ordering the cards, making sure we have enough stamps, actually stuffing and addressing the pile that seems to grow as we work. But for Arwen Mosher, by far the most daunting part is obtaining the dreaded Christmas Card Picture.
Spiritual Directors, Family Life & More
December
14th was the Feast of St. John of the Cross, the spiritual director of
St. Theresa de Avila. She was 52 and he was only 25. Recognizing the
importance of spiritual direction and the lofty qualities required of a
director, what ought we do if we cannot find a spiritual director? This story gives you answers.Judith Costello, a member of the ParishWorld family of Catholic bloggers blogs about relationships, creativity, lessons from the barnyard animals and the power of prayer - with a hint of humor. Her column is titled "Mysteries of Parenting." And as the Advent season unfolds, her initial post looks to the Holy Family and the new challenges at her house - animal deaths and computer problems. Lots of ending and opportunities for new beginnings.
Meanwhile Bo Sanchez posts a blog he calls "What Award Do You Want To Receive?" He recalls the story of a close friend's dad who passed away. The man was 82 years old and he worked until he was 81 years old. Because of his dedication to his work, he was financially successful. But behind all this success, this man died with a deep regret. Because some years ago, his wife passed away. And they had lots of unaccomplished things in their Bucket List.
Let us all celebrate Christmas, the feast of the Incarnation, with joyful hearts and let us renew our faith and hope in God and in his redeeming work.
Another eventful week in our Catholic World. Have a great and blessed new week.
Keep the Faith. Peace.
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Here
is the Advent reflection delivered Friday by Capuchin Father Raniero
Cantalamessa, the preacher of the Pontifical Household, for Benedict XVI
and members of the Roman Curia. The talk was titled: "
On December 8, our Catholic Church celebrated the
Marcel
from Aggie Catholics Blog talks about the past death of his sister.
Like many who suffer pain and grief, he found himself asking many
questions on faith. Have you ever felt that God just wasn't
interested in your problems? Have you ever felt God was distant and
unaccessible? Have you ever thought maybe God is just a myth, because He
just doesn't seem to care? He talks about his pain and his loss in 
Christ
is our King; he is king of our lives, king of our destinies, king of
all of creation. He is the ruler; we are the ruled. He is the healer; we
are the patient. He is the saviour; we are the saved.
Over
the past year, we have seen the important Lukan theme of the imitation
of Jesus, especially in his ministry of forgiveness and reconciliation.
In Luke's moving Gospel story of the crucifixion, this theme reaches its
apex. The teaching in the Gospels is absolutely clear. If you want to
be first, then be the last.
Theirs is a
Thanksgiving
Day means lots of things to Americans: overeating a big turkey dinner,
watching football, getting ready to scoop up the local mall’s 6 a.m.
special sales the next morning. More than any other national holiday
Thanksgiving is family-centered. Bishop Kevin Farrell reminds us that
although many of us are scattered and apart from our loved ones, we
return in spirit, if not in person for Thanksgiving. It is a time when we are reminded
So,
are you thankful? What are you thankful for? We bring back an annual
ParishWorld Thansgiving tradition. Share your thoughts and prayers of
gratitude with us.
In
a country where supersizing and soaring obesity rates have become the
norm, what is the best way to deal with our annual feast day?
Streamlining. The key to a healthy holiday meal is that less can be
more. Less fat. Less sugar. Less salt. And less on the plate. But not
less flavor. Check this out: 
When
was the last time that you or I thought about the final coming of
Christ? The reality is that this could happen at any time. The lesson,
for all of us, is that we need to be prepared at all times.
Often
we read the signs of the times in the disasters we face as a people.
But, Fr. Ron Rolheiser points out, God didn’t cause September 11. God
didn’t send AIDS as a punishment for sin. And God doesn’t single out
some people to win lotteries, while causing sickness and tragedy for
others. A conspiracy of accidents does that.
Veteran’s
Day was this oast week. But it's not too late to think of the men and
women who march in the VFW parades. We think of their grandfathers, the
gregarious World War II sailors, eager to share sea stories, and their
uncles, stolid Vietnam-era airmen reticent to talk about the war. We
think of the aunt who served in the Persian Gulf and the neighbor’s son
who recently shipped off to Afghanistan. These are our country's war
veterans. Joe Carter, and the rest of our grateful country salutes them.
A veteran himself, he offers this moving personal reflection:
